Lost and found in another country: How the ESC taught me to find my own path
Gloria, Spain, Age 25You are young and you feel lost. This is where your journey begins.
There are moments in life when you feel lost. Especially when you are young. The path ahead of you seems already decided, and you’ll never really know why. There is always a “next step” already established, one that you are expected to move towards. Graduate, find a good job, become independent. What no one tells you is how difficult it can be to follow this path and find your place in this succession of stages that seems to be made for everyone except you.
And that is how I ended up getting lost along the way. I felt like I didn’t fit in. But at the same time I didn’t know where I wanted to go next. I was about to graduate with a Master’s degree in International Relations and clearly, and I’m sure many of my peers will recognise themselves in this frustrating experience, I couldn’t find a job. I was spending my days sending dozens of CVs that disappeared into a dark void, never to receive a response.
That was when I realised that perhaps I was looking in the wrong place, a place that simply wasn’t meant for me, and the European Solidarity Corps programme became part of my journey. A journey that was beginning to take me somewhere different, and it felt really frightening. But in the end, I told myself: why be afraid of changing direction where you are already lost?
There are moments in life when you make a decision almost by chance, pushed by circumstances, without giving it much thought, and it ends up becoming something much bigger than words can explain. Especially when you are young. That is how my ESC project began, and how it became something much bigger than I had imagined.
One day at the end of January, I was on a plane heading to Santander, with my 20 kg suitcase. What I didn’t know was that this journey would take me to a place full of people who, with great patience, would teach me that sometimes, when you feel lost, you simply need to learn to look at things differently. I wasn’t lost. The path ahead of me just wasn’t mine.
I learned many things during these seven months. Among them, how EU-funded projects work, what non-formal education is, and that there are people, the youth workers, who work every day to support young people who, like me, feel lost, helping them to find their voice. I lived in a wonderful city, sharing a flat with volunteers from different countries. I learned a lot about their cultures, and I started to see my own in a different way. I cried, I laughed, I went hiking and I swam, so, so many times, in the ocean. But, most of all, I learned that our journey is not divided into predetermined stages. It is divided into small steps. And every step matters. Every step needs its own time.
There are moments in life when you need to feel part of something bigger. Especially when you are young. The ESC is such a special programme because it offers you exactly that: the opportunity to be yourself while committing to something that truly matters to you. Something bigger than you and me. To play your own small part to building a better future. Your future.
The biggest mistake I made when I felt lost was thinking that the solution would be to go somewhere that could give me all the answers. The ESC taught me that, in order to find your path, what you really need is to keep asking yourself new questions.
Updated on Monday, 31/08/2026